It is indeed very difficult to watch people we love who resist healing and continue in their old health-destroying and happiness-avoiding habits. We can offer suggestions but that is about it. It is not up to us to swoop in and make changes for them. It isn’t even up to us to open their hearts. When they are ready their hearts will open. No amount of persuasion or even secret prayer will be effective until they ask for your help.
It is like the old expression: “You can’t rip the skin off the snake.” But when the snake is ready, it sheds its skin easily and naturally. Often people come to their own healing when their back is against the wall and they are down on their knees in desperation. Then they may turn to you for your wisdom and guidance or they may find a spiritual teacher that is in tune with what they require. It is all up to them.
All of us vibrate at different levels according to where we are on our spiritual path. Our loved ones may be at a different stage in that path. We don’t want them to suffer the way they do. But it is truly only up to them to make the choices that lead towards higher vibrational levels. It won’t work if we try to do it for them. The process is highly individual and well-designed.
It is like the old expression: “You can’t rip the skin off the snake.” But when the snake is ready, it sheds its skin easily and naturally. Often people come to their own healing when their back is against the wall and they are down on their knees in desperation. Then they may turn to you for your wisdom and guidance or they may find a spiritual teacher that is in tune with what they require. It is all up to them.
All of us vibrate at different levels according to where we are on our spiritual path. Our loved ones may be at a different stage in that path. We don’t want them to suffer the way they do. But it is truly only up to them to make the choices that lead towards higher vibrational levels. It won’t work if we try to do it for them. The process is highly individual and well-designed.
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