NPD, or Narcissistic Personality Disorder, can be seen as evidence of a “young soul” as opposed to an “old soul.” Old souls have cycled through many lifetimes and have a firmer grasp of, and familiarity with, the world of the Spirit because of this depth. Young souls have few past lives compared to the highly-diversified past lives of the Old Souls. Therefore, they may not display the soul-filled qualities of empathy and concern for others, the humility of a spiritually committed person, and the serious intention to discover who they are in the eternality of their Being.

Narcissists are deeply absorbed in the image they are trying to project to the world. They want others to worship their image to fill a void within. This is not a spiritual journey or even the first step into egoless-ness. It is a mis-step. It is a journey into the pitfalls of the human mind and its constant need for validation due to fear and insecurity. It is a pit of need that can never be filled and offers no real satisfaction.

Narcissists do not think there is a problem with their approach to life. They will rarely seek the egoless state that is the center of spiritual practice.
​
All souls eventually awaken to their union to Source Energy, Cosmic Creativity, and Expanding Bliss. Narcissists take more lifetimes to get there because they are on the completely opposite path to the one that leads to the egoless state of spiritual awareness. Yet even those with NPD are just delaying their eventual awakening in a future life.

You will know immediately when you meet your twin flame. I have found that if people have to ask whether their partner is their soul mate or twin flame, they usually are not. Because when twin flames meet, it feels like a very familiar being from many past lives. And you just know, deep down inside, that this is you in another body. There is no question about it.

Some signs are: That you complete each others’ sentences. You think the same thoughts at the same time. You feel when the other is in trouble. You know that you don’t have to explain yourself to them. These are just a few indications. The rest are not describable in words. It is a mixture of feelings that involves comfort, goosebumps, and an exchange of love that feels like overwhelming light. Your soul has come home and is at rest with this person, is another feeling.
​
Soul mates and twin flames are different levels of spiritual relationships. Soul mates are more common than twin flames. Yet both share the characteristic that you have crossed paths in different lives and you are brought together for the mutual growth and expansions of your souls.

When we think with our brains instead of using our spiritual senses, we are limited by seeing time as a liner measurement, with one thing happening after another in a progression. But when we see with our spiritual senses, time does not exist and everything is one big simultaneity. It is all happening at once. This is too much for our brain to handle and so most are blind to this.

Parallel incarnations refers to the phenomenon in which all your past lives are actually occurring now. But just to organize it in a way that makes sense to the brain, we say they were in the past. This is how the Twin Flame phenomenon works too—but with regard to space. Your soul is in two places at the same time.

Einstein showed, through his Theory of Relativity, that time is an illusion. Time is a convenience created by humans so we can communicate with each other and organize physical reality. But in metaphysics, all things are simultaneous. All of our lifetimes are occurring now. We are just putting them into sequence to get a grasp on them and derive meaning.

It’s like going into an imaginary giant multiplex cinema where thousands of movies are all playing at once. And you want to see as many movies as you can. All the movies are there and it your choice which one you want to start with and which one you want to see next. But they all will be playing forever.

Your lifetimes are that way. You have past and present and future lifetimes all in the same space as you. The illusion is that they are in different times. And so it goes with parallel lifetimes, or twin souls, which are in the same time, but in a different space. In some cases you can even be a soul triplet.
​
Parallel incarnations show us that time is an illusion. All lifetimes are simultaneous -- past, present, future, parallel, overlapping. All of them are happening at once.

Some things cannot be proven in a laboratory yet we know they exist. Love is an example. A scientist may be able to pinpoint centers in the brain that are activated when we feel love but love is so much more complex than chemical and electrical impulses in the brain.

The same situation applies to the soul. We know we have a soul. We feel it. It is that part of us that is eternal and exists in a vibrational dimension that is a different frequency than the material world. How can researchers prove something that is in a different dimension that the laboratory setting can encompass?

Dr. Ian Stevenson, in his research-based book 20 Cases Suggestive of Reincarnation, performed studies with children and others who remembered past lives, employing a team of scientists. They investigated these findings thoroughly and came up with the closest thing to hard evidence that is possible. It is worth looking through because he uses the scientific method with integrity.

Karma is the Sanskrit word for “action.” All energy created by an action has to be returned. It is a law of physics: For every action there is an equal an opposite reaction. Action does not exist in a vacuum. There will always be repercussions. Thus the expression: “What goes around, comes around.”

To really understand the depth of karmic principles, it is important to accept that you have lived for many previous lives and the situations and circumstances of your current life are the result of the actions performed during all those lives. This is one explanation for bad things happening to good people or or even good things happening to seemingly bad people. Except in cases of what is called, “Undeserved Suffering,” everything in your life is the result of the energy created by actions in previous births.

Every situation that happens to you, and even everyone you meet, has a Karmic meaning. In other words, as the old saying goes, “Everything happens for a reason.”
​
Karma places the responsibility on you. You have created and will continue to create your life. This means you can also clean up karmic patterns as you evolve spiritually. You can use your free will to cut the karmic chains and choose the life you want to lead, attracting the energy you desire through the energy radiate.

The phenomenon of deja vu is one example of memories being connected to our souls. We know we have been in this place before, or we said the same things to this person we just met and they feel so familiar.

Our past lives memories will sometimes come to us very clearly, allowing us to see the nature of our soul’s journey lifetime after lifetime. Children are particularly good at recalling their soul’s memories. You can read about this phenomenon here, but there are many books and articles on the subject:

10 Amazing Things Kids Have Said About Past Lives

Our short term-memory is related to the mind, as opposed to the soul. This is a very fallible memory bank and we can barely remember what we did two weeks ago on the same day. That is not a soul connection. But memories of lessons we learned, soul mates we encountered, suffering and joy we underwent in a different incarnations, are all keys to understanding who we are in this life.